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:Yes, absolutely. That is not what boylove is about. See https://www.boywiki.org/en/Dave_Riegel "The Philosophy of Responsible Boylove" that is a good place to start. There is some disagreement (because we are BL's and love to argue with each other) I think most BL's would agree that simply using a boy for sex is "reprehensible" if you have no commitment to his well being in the long term. I am sure that user4 could explain this to you better then me or at least add to it. --[[User:Etenne|Etenne]] ([[User talk:Etenne|talk]]) 19:35, 9 March 2015 (UTC)
:Yes, absolutely. That is not what boylove is about. See https://www.boywiki.org/en/Dave_Riegel "The Philosophy of Responsible Boylove" that is a good place to start. There is some disagreement (because we are BL's and love to argue with each other) I think most BL's would agree that simply using a boy for sex is "reprehensible" if you have no commitment to his well being in the long term. I am sure that user4 could explain this to you better then me or at least add to it. --[[User:Etenne|Etenne]] ([[User talk:Etenne|talk]]) 19:35, 9 March 2015 (UTC)
::Is it outside the realm of possibility that a boy might prefer no-strings-attached sex to a relationship? Or that, if someone is only going to be in town for a little while, he might still prefer to have a short-term sexual relationship than miss the opportunity entirely? [[User:Lysander|Lysander]] ([[User talk:Lysander|talk]]) 19:44, 9 March 2015 (UTC)
::Is it outside the realm of possibility that a boy might prefer no-strings-attached sex to a relationship? Or that, if an adult is only going to be in town for a little while, the boy might still prefer to have a short-term sexual relationship than miss the opportunity entirely? [[User:Lysander|Lysander]] ([[User talk:Lysander|talk]]) 19:44, 9 March 2015 (UTC)

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Some comments:

"Child sex tourism is travel, either internationally or domestically..."

"or domestically" -- I don't believe that domestic travel is normally referred to as "sex tourism". There was a 1910 law regarding crossing state lines -- I forget the name (and -- as usual -- my system is so maxed out that I cannot google it... sorry).

"Offenses are divided into three categories: pedophilic offenses, in which the minor partner is under 11 years of age; hebephilic offenses, in which the minor partner is 11-14; and and statutory offenses, in which the minor partner is 15-17."

By whom?

"while North Americans constitute the main customer segment."

I have seen breakdowns which state that Japanese and German nationals are "the main customer segments" -- but, sorry, I can't give a reference just now. You could try googling it.

(NOTE: I'm really busy on other things, and I am way behind in responding to questions you have posed elsewhere on BW -- sorry... I hope to catch up soon.) User4 (talk) 09:43, 9 March 2015 (UTC)

Often the legal definitions are different than those used by academics. It's kinda like how cannabis is often classified as a narcotic by statutes, but would probably be considered by scientists to be a mild hallucinogen. Or it's like how feminist academics will consider a broad range of behaviors rape that legislators would be more likely to call "sexual battery".
"In anticipation of DSM-V, Blanchard et al. (2009) proposed three subtypes of Pedophilia: Pedophilic Type (sexually attracted to children younger than eleven), Hebephilic Type (sexually attracted to children aged eleven to fourteen), and Pedohebephilic Type (sexually attracted to both). Blanchard et al. (2000) also introduced the term “teleiophile” to describe the remaining majority of adults who prefer physically mature partners. . . . When evaluating individuals accused of child sex tourism, the authors recommend classifying each purported offense as pedophilic, hebephilic, or statutory, based on the age of known victims". William J. Newman, Ben W. Holt, John S. Rabun, Gary Phillips, Charles L. Scott (March–April 2011). "Child sex tourism: Extending the borders of sexual offender legislation". International Journal of Law and Psychiatry 34 (2): 116–121. doi:10.1016/j.ijlp.2011.02.005.  Lysander (talk) 15:40, 9 March 2015 (UTC)
Thanks. Blanchard is, in my opinion, a quack. He wants to criminalize (or "medicalize") adult/sexually mature adolescent sexual activity. He wants to turn almost all males in the world into sexual deviants! User4 (talk) 16:18, 9 March 2015 (UTC)

Morally reprehensible?

What would be the reasons why boylovers would view child sex tourism as morally reprehensible? Would it be any different if an adult were to have a sexual relationship with a poverty-stricken minor who lived in the same first-world country? Lysander (talk) 19:25, 9 March 2015 (UTC)

Yes, absolutely. That is not what boylove is about. See https://www.boywiki.org/en/Dave_Riegel "The Philosophy of Responsible Boylove" that is a good place to start. There is some disagreement (because we are BL's and love to argue with each other) I think most BL's would agree that simply using a boy for sex is "reprehensible" if you have no commitment to his well being in the long term. I am sure that user4 could explain this to you better then me or at least add to it. --Etenne (talk) 19:35, 9 March 2015 (UTC)
Is it outside the realm of possibility that a boy might prefer no-strings-attached sex to a relationship? Or that, if an adult is only going to be in town for a little while, the boy might still prefer to have a short-term sexual relationship than miss the opportunity entirely? Lysander (talk) 19:44, 9 March 2015 (UTC)