Misconceptions about pedophiles' sexual activities with young people

This entry needs to be rewriten and retitled. This is an opportunity. But if no one wants to fix this, it will be deleted. --Etenne (talk) 13:41, 15 May 2015 (UTC)

That men are looking to have insertive anal sex (fucking) with boys is a myth created by the sexophobes and antisexuals. They are trying to have their audience believe that pedophiles are out to use boys for their own sexual enjoyment, without regard to any harm to them. While this may be true in a few cases, a.

Importance to BoyLovers

Pedophiles are condemned most harshly by those who fear that pedophilic men wish "to fuck little boys". Those who believe that "pedophiles" usually (or even often) have the "the desire to fuck little boys" are seriously mistaken.

Research

The best research done to date on men attracted to boys who are around age 12 or below shows that those men almost never engage in (or even want to engage in) anal sex with the boy being the "receiver". And it is virtually unknown for the men to attempt anal intercourse with the boy against the boy's will.

Sexual activity by "pedophiles" with young boys (boys aged 12 and below) is almost exclusively limited to the man performing fellatio on -- "giving a blow job to" -- the boy, and bringing the boy to an orgasm, as well as fondling, cuddling, etc. Most commonly the man finds his pleasure through masturbating himself, and again, often not even in the presence of the boy but later, alone, while recalling the genital activity he engaged in with the boy.

Even "true" girl-lovers (attracted to peri- or prepubescent girls) show little or no interest in "fucking" (engaging in penetrative vaginal sex) with the objects of their desires.

Homosexual men

Homosexual men who are mainly attracted to "beardless youths" -- males who are sexually mature but who still lack development of all of their secondary sexual characteristics -- are pederasts, and may wish to engage in anal intercourse with the youth, though the intercourse may be either the man as the giver or as the receiver of the anal intercourse. Research has been done on underage homosexual youths and their experiences with adult men. Anal intercourse may be practiced by the men on the boys but, again, almost never against the boy's will. (Links need to be included here to these articles.)

Heterosexual men

Heterosexual men have sometimes been known to anally rape young boys, but this is as a replacement for vaginal sex with a woman. This activity also gives "BoyLovers" a very bad name.

Pederasts

"Pederasts" usually are interested in post-pubescent boys, boys who already are developing secondary sexual characteristics. So these "pederasts" are not really "pedophiles" as they usually see a pre-pubescent boy as not being sexually attractive and still a "child".

See also

(To be expanded later)

• The Man they called a Monster (book)
• https://www.boywiki.org/en/Category:Books

External links

• Research on pederastic and pedophilic sexual activities (an incomplete listing):

Lautman: http://www.ipce.info/library_3/files/lautmann_quotes.htm

Baurmann: http://www.ipce.info/library_2/files/baurmann.htm and https://www.ipce.info/ipceweb/Library/baurmann_sum.htm

Sandfort: http://www.ipce.info/host/sandfort_87/

also, Normal Sexual Behavior and Development https://www.ipce.info/ipceweb/Library/00aug31d_book_tip.htm

Vogt, Horst, Pedophilia, The Leipziger Study of the Social and Psychical Situation of Pedophilic Men http://www.ipce.info/host/vogt/vogt_content.htm

Wilson, Glenn D. & Cox, David N., The Child-Lovers, A Study of Paedophiles in Society http://www.ipce.info/host/wilson_83/

Rivas, T., Positive memories, http://www.ipce.info/host/rivas/positive_memories.htm

Howitt, Dennis, Paedophiles and Sexual Offences against Children http://www.ipce.info/host/howitt/

Bernard, Dr Frits, Paedophilia: A Factual Report http://www.ipce.info/booksreborn/bernard/factual.htm

General (also, an incomplete listing)

• Debunking myths about sex between men and boys:

https://www.ipce.info/newsletters/e_18/common_myths_frame.htm

• Attraction to younger guys: What psychology says

https://www.ipce.info/newsletters/e_18/attraction_frame.htm

• The Ipce library (divided into sections):

https://www.ipce.info/ipceweb/Library/articles.htm

https://www.ipce.info/ipceweb/Library/book,.htm

https://www.ipce.info/ipceweb/Library/books.htm