Abandonment

The abandonment of children by pedophiles who are done using them for sex is a common theme in anti-pedophilia rhetoric. Dramatica, for example, says, "'Love' in pedophilia is illogical for the simple fact that kids grow up, which means the attraction from fucking a kid will dissipate as the kid grows older." These critics usually do not mention the fact that heterosexual men also tend to find women less attractive as they grow older, unless wife goggles allow them to continue seeing their wife as the beautiful woman she was when they got married.