Males and females are the same, except for the wiggly bits
I keep seeing that in books, articles, newspapers...
And I am so sick of hearing that crap!
Males and females are not the same, except for the wiggly bits!
Evolution has been going on (in mammals) for well over 60,000,000 years. Sixty million years of trial and error to figure out what can survive, and what cannot survive (given the circumstances of the environment).
And you know what? Nature (we'll use that "meme," I hope you don't mind) figured out that, if the species were to survive, the ones that had the babies had to be quite different from the ones that didn't have the babies!
We're talking about not just a few external physical differences--which everyone agrees there are--but real differences in how they think and behave, because the brains of males and the brains of females are different!
Yes. The brains are different. That means the thinking is different, too.
Nature has found that this is necessary for the species to survive!
You hear the feminists (not all, but many of them) going on and on and on that "It's all learned--it's all acquired, while you're growing up. Boys get blue things, and girls get pink things. But if you gave the boys pink things, then they'd like pink things. And if you gave the girls blue things, then they'd like blue things. The same for their toys, if you gave boys dolls, then...".
Hogwash! That is simply not true! Empirical studies have shown that young infants--too young to have been influenced yet by the "pink vs. blue" and the "dolls vs. firetrucks" dichotomies already show preferences for dolls, if female, and firetrucks if male!
That is a fact!
But the feminists go on and on and on... And they've taken over parts of the governments (and even the U.N.), too, so now the governments of the world are (most of them, especially in the West) on a crusade about this, too.
The female adults don't understand that there are male things that the females don't understand--and don't even know about. For one thing, females, when growing up, don't ever have to break away from the clutches of their mothers. Because girls and woman are both female, growing up for a girl doesn't mean establishing a different kind of personality from their mothers (female) personality. Girls naturally grow up (because they have female brains) to have female personalities.
But for boys it is different! Boys have to break loose from the stranglehold of their mother's "love" , and establish male personalities, because they have male brains! They can't do this if they are treated exactly the same as females are!
That is a fact!
So, men and boys establish relationships with each other that help the boys to cut loose from their mother's apron strings. This is an essential part of growing up for a boy!
And sometimes, not always, but sometimes, the relationships have a sexual element to them. And this is good. This helps the boys to learn (sexually) what it is to be male!
But females just "don't get it". They aren't taught (any more--they were in the past) that men do "male things" together, because their brains are different from female brains!
Oh, and the females say that the men have all the power, right? And that men dominate women, right? Then how come the male scientists that have discovered these essential differences between males and females don't force these discoveries down the female's throats, if they've "got so much power over the females, huh?"
It's because females exercise a lot of power over males! Females, in their own way, dominate males! Males, for the most part, are afraid of females! That's how come the feminists have been able to get away with spreading so many lies when they claim that "the nature of women and men being the same".
I've got quite a few books--good books, written by real scientists--that explain in detail what I have outlined above. I should find them in my e-book collection (which is massive) and share them with the readers of BoyWiki.
See, BoyLovers are part of Nature's plan! We are supposed to love boys! We are supposed to find boys sexually attractive! That's how nature ensures that BoyLovers will really want to take care of boys, and to help them to grow up!
But the females? They just don't get it!
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Some notes
Women earn less than men because women work fewer hours, on average, than men. Per hour, women earn roughly the same as men (when the extra hours that men put in are discounted).
Women are not as well-represented in executive positions because women reject executive positions--working in executive positions means that women cannot spend the time with their families that they want to. Women choose non-executive jobs so they can have more freedom.
Women assault men just about as often as men assault women (though it is true that male assaults can become more violent, simply because men are bigger and stronger than women).
Women are doing better educationally--and receiving more university degrees--than men are. This is not "gender equality"!
See also
(to be expanded)
External links
- Read/Download this book, The War Against Boys- How Misguided Policies are Harming Our Young Men (2013 revised/updated edition) by Christina_Hoff_Sommers
- Also watch this video: The Gender Equality Paradox - Documentary NRK - 2011
- And see this (follow the various links to other articles), but remember--the "politically correct" females have influenced Wikipedia articles and filled many of the articles with the kinds of distortions and lies mentioned above. The "purely scientific" articles are not so badly mangled, but anything to do with psychology or sociology often have been twisted to fit "the politically correct" narrative about "gender equality of males and females."
